I had a relationship with “Rachana,” a girl that my family
was fundamentally opposed to me having a relationship with. But I loved her.
And I lived the philosophy that when the heart speaks, reasoning should shut
up. I had a wonderful time with Rachana for a few years. My relationship with Rachana
was going great until the day that I discovered purchases on my credit card
that I had given to her for our groceries that I did not recognize. It turned
out that she had been using my credit cards to make purchases for her other boy
friends. Reality check.